Break-Up Post Mortem #2

I have never felt more relief than I am feeling now after learning the reasons for my dumping yesterday. I think it's so unbelievably scary that you think you know someone truly and deeply, and it turns out they can have a totally opposing personality, kind of like Jekyl & Hyde. How is a girl to tell if there are NO warning signs? I've learned by experience to spot them now, and run in the other direction. But this, I have no skills to be prepared for. I guess only time reveals all truths, and in the meantime you have to give in to vulnerability as scary as it seems. All in all, I'm happy I found out the truth sooner than later.